Been hovering over the call button and then chickening out? You’re not the first. If you’ve never tried phone sex before, it can feel a bit awkward wondering what you’re actually supposed to say. The good news? There’s no script, no audition and definitely no right way to do it. Just pick up the phone and see where the conversation goes.
Get yourself comfortable
First things first, make sure you’re somewhere you can actually relax.You probably don’t want your other half or your housemate wandering in halfway through. Headphones are a good shout too, especially if you’re trying to keep things private. And check your battery. Nothing kills the mood quite like 2% battery remaining.
Know what you fancy
Before you call, have a vague idea of what you’re in the mood for. Want something flirty and girlfriend-style? Prefer a bit of dirty talk? Fancy getting into a roleplay scenario?
You don’t need to have the whole thing planned out. Just tell your Sexstation girl what you’re into and let her take it from there. And if it’s your first time, just say so. Honestly, it’s probably one of the easiest ways to get the conversation started.
Don’t overthink what to say
This is probably the biggest worry people have.
“What am I actually supposed to say?”
Whatever feels natural. Tell her you like her voice. Ask what she’s wearing. Tell her what you’re imagining. Ask her a question. You don’t need to suddenly become Shakespeare. A simple conversation is much better than desperately trying to remember some line you saw on the internet.
Have a couple of ideas ready
If you know roughly what gets you going, keep a couple of ideas in your head. Maybe you’ve got a thing for mature women, big boobs, roleplay or a particular fantasy. You don’t have to announce a ten-point plan when she answers. Just drop it into the conversation and see where it goes. And if you change your mind halfway through? That’s fine too.
Nervous? Just say it
If you’re nervous, say you’re nervous. Seriously. You won’t be the first person to pick up the phone and suddenly forget every word you’ve ever learned. The cam girls are used to it and can help keep the conversation going until you relax.
A little bit of manners goes a long way
Flirty is good. Rude isn’t. Remember there’s a real person on the other end of the phone, so treat her like one. Let her talk, listen to what she’s saying and if something isn’t your thing, just say so. You can still have plenty of fun without being a dick.
And when the call ends…
You don’t need to make a dramatic exit. If you’ve enjoyed yourself, tell her. A simple “that was good” or “I’ll be calling you again” is more than enough. And if you’ve found your new favourite voice? Well, you know where the call button is.
Ready to give it a go?
Pick your vibe, find a babe who takes your fancy and make the call. You really don’t need to overthink it.
Just say hello and see where the conversation takes you.
